Therapy in a Nut Shell

If you want to learn how to regulate your emotions, you have to learn the crucial emotional regulation skill of acceptance Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Free course - Grounding Skills for Anxiety, Stress and PTSD: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/grounding-skills-for-anxiety-stress-and-ptsd If you’ve ever wondered how to regulate your emotions when anxiety, sadness, anger, grief, ADHD overwhelm, or even chronic pain feel intense — this simple emotional regulation exercise can help. In this animated version of my emotional regulation practice, I walk you step-by-step through a powerful skill that helps break the emotion-fear-avoidance cycle. When we try to suppress, distract from, or avoid our feelings, they often come back louder. But when we learn how to regulate emotions through curiosity and acceptance, our nervous system begins to calm down. In this video, you’ll learn: - Why avoiding emotions increases anxiety and emotional reactivity - The emotion-fear-avoidance cycle explained simply - A practical emotional regulation exercise you can use anytime - How to respond to anxiety, sadness, anger, grief, ADHD emotions, and chronic pain - How acceptance builds nervous system safety - A mindfulness-based tool to feel emotions without being overwhelmed This emotional regulation skill is rooted in evidence-based approaches like mindfulness and acceptance practices. Instead of trying to force feelings away, you’ll learn how to regulate your emotions by allowing sensations, getting curious, and teaching your brain that feelings are not dangerous. When you practice this skill regularly — even one minute at a time — you train your brain to respond differently to stress. You become less reactive, more grounded, and more able to choose actions aligned with the life you care about. If you’re looking for: How to regulate anxiety How to regulate anger How to regulate sadness ADHD emotional regulation tools Nervous system calming exercises Mindfulness for emotional regulation Chronic pain and emotion connection This emotional regulation exercise is for you. You can learn how to regulate your emotions. Your feelings are not dangerous. And you are capable of being with them. #HowToRegulateYourEmotions #EmotionalRegulation #AnxietyRelief #ADHDEmotionalRegulation #Mindfulness #NervousSystemHealing #ChronicPain #TherapyInANutshell 00:00 How to Practice Willingness for Emotional Regulation 00:22 How to Allow Your Feelings: Break the Fear Cycle 02:10 Practice How to Accept Your Feelings 06:55 Moving Forward with Acceptance Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
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Depression, trauma and negative self-talk can leave you feeling worthless or struggling with low self-esteem. But you don’t have to feel depressed forever, learn how to deal with feeling worthless with 6 practical ways to improve your self esteem Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Feel worthless? Learn how depression and low self-esteem trap you—and 6 practical ways to break free from the “I’m no good” story. Why do you feel worthless—even when part of you knows it’s not true? In this video, we’re tackling the painful experience of low self-esteem, depression, and feeling like you’re “no good.” That heavy, shut-down state doesn’t just live in your thoughts—it affects your whole body and behavior. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking: “I’m worthless” “I’ll never be good enough” “There’s something wrong with me” You’re not alone. And more importantly—this isn’t the truth. It’s a pattern your brain has learned. Using practical, evidence-based strategies, I’ll walk you through how to break out of that cycle and rebuild a healthier sense of self-esteem—without forcing fake positivity. In this video, you’ll learn: Why trying to argue with “I feel worthless” often backfires How depression and shame can trap you in rumination Why feeling “no good” can actually function as a protective strategy Simple ways to take action—even when you feel stuck or overwhelmed How to shift harsh self-talk into something more realistic and helpful A powerful technique to “borrow self-esteem” when you can’t feel it yourself This isn’t about convincing yourself you’re amazing overnight. It’s about taking small, doable steps to interrupt the cycle of withdrawal, rebuild confidence, and start seeing yourself more clearly. Because here’s the truth: You’re not worthless—you’ve just been stuck in a pattern that makes you feel that way. If this feeling is intense or persistent—especially if you’re struggling with depression—it’s worth reaching out for support. You don’t have to carry this alone. #feelingworthless #self esteem #depression #selfpity 00:00 6 Things You Can Do When You Feel Worthless 00:51 1. Why Arguing with Feeling Worthless Fuels Depression 02:36 2. Recognize that feeling worthless is a broken strategy 06:37 3. Replace Self-pity with a Growth Mindset 08:24 4. Take Action Against Depression: Change What You Do 11:16 5. Improve Self-Esteem with Kind Words 11:59 6. Use the Body to Shift Out of Worthlessness 13:31 From Self Pity to Lasting Self Esteem 14:24 If Feeling Worthless is Intense or Persistent Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
When you feel completely worthless
Performance anxiety? Learn how to overcome stage fright and anxiety with 7 practical strategies to stay calm, focused, and confident. Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Watch my speech at NeuroDiversion 2026: https://youtu.be/0eThncIq2Gk?si=QxW-oZ85QgravP03 Do you struggle with performance anxiety, stage fright, or anxiety before big moments? Whether it’s public speaking, sports, music, or presentations—performance anxiety can make your heart race, your mind go blank, and your body feel completely out of control. In this video, I share how I managed my own stage fright while giving a keynote speech—and the 7 practical, research-backed strategies that helped me move through anxiety and perform anyway. If you’ve ever thought: “What if I mess up?” “Everyone’s going to judge me” “I need to calm down right now” This video will help you understand what’s actually happening in your body—and how to work with anxiety instead of against it. You’ll learn: Why trying to “calm down” can actually make anxiety worse How to stop perfectionism from sabotaging your performance A powerful mindset shift from fear → excitement How to use positive self-talk that actually works Simple ways to regulate your body before and during a performance Why what you do after a performance shapes your future confidence This isn’t about eliminating anxiety—it’s about learning how to perform with anxiety. Because anxiety doesn’t mean you’re not capable, It usually means you care. Willingness: How to Feel Your Feelings https://www.google.com/url?q=https://youtu.be/6cFhhUuMEW8&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1780427743448596&usg=AOvVaw2TUwtUfBVKhnHYqYOm4Lis What to Do with Anxiety in Your Body https://www.google.com/url?q=https://youtu.be/-v34YfjfKUk&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1780427743448905&usg=AOvVaw0997Nd4ngGCWz0q4-1woss Sign up for my free Grounding Skills course https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/grounding-skills-for-anxiety-stress-and-ptsd 00:00 7 Strategies to Overcome Stage Fright 01:33 1. Preparation vs Perfection with Performance Anxiety 02:46 2. Combat Stage Fright with Intentional Self-Talk 04:24 3. Lessen Stage Fright with a Growth Mindset 05:17 4. Performance Anxiety’s Struggle Switch 08:28 5. Turning Stage Fright into Excitement 10:18 6. Invite a Calm Body to Manage Performance Anxiety 12:20 7. Train Your Brain to Move Past Performance Anxiety Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
How I dealt with Performance Anxiety (as an "Anxiety Expert")
Hormones have a drastic impact on women with ADHD. Learn how estrogen and your menstrual cycle impact focus, mood, and why symptoms suddenly get worse. Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Why do ADHD symptoms in women seem to change throughout the month—or suddenly get worse in your 30s and 40s? In this video, we break down the powerful connection between women, ADHD, and hormones—and why this piece of the puzzle has been overlooked for so long. You’ll learn how estrogen directly affects dopamine (the brain chemical behind focus, motivation, and executive function), and why shifts during the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and menopause can dramatically impact ADHD symptoms. We’ll cover: Why ADHD in women is often underdiagnosed and misunderstood How hormonal changes influence attention, mood, and memory What happens during puberty, pregnancy, and perimenopause Why ADHD medications may work differently across your cycle The surprising link between estrogen, dopamine, and executive function If you’ve ever wondered why some weeks feel manageable and others feel impossible, this video will help you understand what’s happening—and how to work with your brain instead of against it. You’ll also get practical strategies to: Track your cycle and identify patterns Plan your work and energy around hormonal shifts Adjust expectations (without beating yourself up) Support your focus and mental health more effectively ADHD isn’t just about willpower—and for women, hormones play a huge role. Understanding this can be a game-changer. What Is Executive Function - And Why Is Executive Dysfunction So Bad for Mental Health? https://youtu.be/2RoWB8tYLMM Frontiers article: "Research advances and future directions in female ADHD": https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/global-womens-health/articles/10.3389/fgwh.2025.1613628/full 00:00 Hormones and ADHD in Women 00:32 ADHD in Women is Misunderstood and Underdiagnosed 03:04 How ADHD Women Hormones Connect: Estrogen 06:08 ADHD and Hormones: Lifelong Impacts 06:15 Childhood 07:45 Puberty 09:57 Sexual Health 10:44 Birth Control 11:33 Pregnancy, Birth, and Postpartum 12:58 Perimenopause, Menopause and ADHD 15:56 Hormone Replacement Therapy for Women with ADHD 17:26 Medication for Women with ADHD 18:26 ADHD and Hormones for Menstruating Women 20:33 We Need More Research for ADHD and Hormones Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
ADHD and Hormones - The Massive Impact on Women with ADHD
This CBT tool helps you stop overgeneralization, regulate emotions, and break negative thinking patterns with simple, practical tools. Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Do you ever take one mistake and turn it into “I always mess things up”? That’s called overgeneralization—and it’s one of the most common thinking patterns that fuels anxiety, depression, and emotional overwhelm. In this video, you’ll learn how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps you recognize and challenge overgeneralization so you can improve emotion regulation and feel more grounded. I’ll walk you through simple, practical tools to catch extreme thinking, shrink it back to reality, and respond in a more flexible, helpful way. If you’ve ever felt stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, this video will help you build more accurate thoughts, reduce emotional reactivity, and take small steps toward feeling more in control. You’ll learn: • What overgeneralization is and why your brain does it • How it impacts anxiety, depression, and stress • CBT strategies to challenge negative thinking patterns • Simple ways to improve emotion regulation in real time You don’t have to believe everything your brain tells you. You can learn to think more clearly, respond more effectively, and feel better. 00:00 Overgeneralization Intensifies Emotions 00:57 Roots of Overgeneralization: Lessons from the Wild 05:09 What is Overgeneralization? 06:30 Why We Overgeneralize: Impact on Emotional Regulation 07:08 Overgeneralization for Safety 09:37 Overgeneralizing is Self-Justifying 11:21 4 CBT Strategies to Disrupt Overgeneralization 12:09 CBT Strategy 1: Catch Global Language 12: 47CBT Strategy 2: Shrink the Thought Down to Size 14:05 CBT Strategy 3: Add Counterexamples 15:37 CBT Strategy 4 - Look for Helpful Action 16:31 Getting Better at Emotional Regulation Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
This Thinking Pattern Makes Everything Feel Worse - Overgeneralization- Emotion Regulation 2/30
Do you ever feel paralyzed with overwhelm? When you feel like you can't get motivated or your ADHD is taking over, this video can help you get started on the tough problems. Thanks Christi for sharing!! https://www.instagram.com/christi.newrutzen Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Here's my Emotion Processing course: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/emotion-processing Do you ever feel so overwhelmed that you just… shut down? You want to be motivated, but instead you’re stuck, frozen, and frustrated with yourself. If you have ADHD—or you’re just overwhelmed by life—this can feel like a daily battle. In this video, you’ll learn why overwhelm isn’t laziness—it’s your brain going into survival mode—and why trying to “just try harder” often backfires. When your brain is overloaded, it’s not a motivation problem. It’s a state problem. I’ll walk you through 5 practical, research-informed strategies to help you get motivated again—even when you feel completely overwhelmed: • How to shift your mental and physical state so your brain can engage • Why ADHD brains struggle with overwhelm (and what actually helps) • Simple ways to reduce overload and gain clarity fast • How to build momentum when you feel stuck • Tools to make boring tasks easier and more motivating Whether you’re dealing with ADHD, burnout, anxiety, or just too much on your plate, these small shifts can help you move from overwhelmed to action—without shame or pressure. If you’re tired of feeling overwhelmed and wondering why you can’t get motivated, this video will give you practical tools you can use today to start moving forward again. You’re not broken—you’re overwhelmed. Let’s fix that. 00:00 ADHD: How to Stop Procrastinating 01:19 When ADHD Overwhelm Feels Like Survival Mode 02:47 How to Get Motivated: Change Your Nervous System 04:19 Restorying Safety When Overwhelmed 05:26 Somatic Tools for Regulating the Overwhelmed ADHD Brain 07:41 Stop Procrastination by Externalizing Your ADHD 11:41 Lessen ADHD Overwhelm by Shrinking the Task 14:09 How to Get Yourself to Do Stuff: Gamify! 17:33 How to Stop Procrastinating with Time Boxing 18:50 Moving from ADHD Procrastination to Action Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/free-resources Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
How to make yourself do stuff when you're paralyzed with overwhelm
Humans are wired for co-regulation. Our brains and bodies constantly take cues from the people around us about whether we're safe or in danger. A calm conversation. A hug from someone you trust. Eye contact. Laughter. Feeling understood. These experiences can help signal safety to a stressed nervous system in ways that are difficult to achieve alone. FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.co... Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/c... If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
How to Regulate Your Nervous System with Connection
When you're depressed, your world often gets smaller. You spend more time alone, indoors, and stuck in the same patterns. Changing your environment creates new experiences, new sensory input, and new opportunities for connection. Sometimes healing starts with something as simple as changing the scenery and giving your brain a reminder that there's still a world outside of the depression. FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.co... Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/c... If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
Change Your Environment
Sometimes your depression stems from things you wouldn't even think about... Nutrient deficiencies could play a factor. And with a regular Dr. Apt you can get support and possible supplements to help. Your body is multifaceted and often needs a multifaceted approach. FREE Mental Health Resources: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.co... Check out my podcast, Therapy in a Nutshell: https://tinpodcast.podbean.com/ Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/c... If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ or 988 or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
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A personal note from Amelia, click to open Chances.org has been run by one volunteer, me, since 1999. Here's how you can help keep it going. Read my letter Close my note

Hello, it's me, Amelia Carrie. I have been running and updating Chances.org since 1999, for free. I pay for the software, hosting, maintenance, apps, and more. That's more than 25 years of my life devoted to doing something I love.

However, the fact is that I am a senior now and due to having to compete with AI for computer graphics work, I can no longer afford to run this site on my own. I need your help, not only to keep it online, but to keep it growing. That's why I am updating Chances.org with a Donate button and a Supporters page.

If you can't afford either, you can still help for free by using the sharing buttons below. Thank you!

With gratitude,
Amelia Carrie

For investors and dreamers: If you are an investor with the means to help Chances.org grow as big as Change.org or GoFundMe, please write to me at ChancesCharity@Gmail.com.

And if you have great plans and ambition, I may even let you take this site over, because everybody deserves a chance.

You can't have change without chances!

♥️ Support Chances.org

Since 1999, Chances.org has been dedicated to sharing hope, inspiration, and positive connections. Your gentle support helps keep our interactive tools free and accessible for everyone.

Thank you for helping us make a difference! Chances.org is not a registered nonprofit, so donations are not tax-deductible."